I've worried that having our kids write out a wish list fostered the wrong focus on the season. Yet, my better half felt differently, because he wants to give them specific gifts they want. This year we came up with an idea my husband & I both loved...a Christmas survey!
We printed out questions for everyone like, "What's your favorite Christmas tradition? What is one new thing you'd like to do this year? What are some things you'd like for Christmas?" 3 lines were provided to answer the gift question, so we have a few ideas, but are not building expectations they they'll get everything they can imagine. Plus, we like to surprise them with gifts not on their list too.
The last question was "who do you think we can help this Christmas and how?"
It was good to hear what makes Christmas feel special to them so we make sure we do those things.
And I like that their lists were not just about gifts, but about memory-making and serving others.
Hope your Holidays are sweet & filled with what matters most!
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